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Working With Lawyers Every Day

When I started to work with the city, I realized that I was going to be working alongside our attorneys every single day. While I was a little nervous around them at first, we quickly became friends and all of that anxiety melted away. It was really neat to see how many different subjects they could handle, and I realized just how necessary they were for helping me to manage various daily occurrences. On this website, I thought it would be really great to start talking about how to work with lawyers, and what it might mean for you and your family if you seek legal advice early.

Working With Lawyers Every Day

Tips for Winning Sole Custody

Cassandra Stone

Going through a divorce is never simple and straightforward, especially if you have children. Unfortunately, there are situations when one parent is more responsible and should have sole physical and legal custody. Here are a few simple tips to help strengthen your case and ensure you gain sole custody of your children.

Gather Evidence to Support Your Case

When determining who should have sole custody of their children, the court's only concern is what is best for the children. Accumulate information and evidence that shows the court you are the responsible parent and would be the better choice for your children. For example, write down every time the other parent was late picking up their children or missed an important event, such as doctor's appointments and school events.

Consider making life changes and choices that will also show the court you are the more responsible choice. For example, ask your employer if you can have more flexible hours or can work partially from home.

Hire an Attorney

In addition to helping you prepare for other aspects of your case; an attorney can help you understand how to strengthen your case. Hiring an attorney also shows the court that you are serious about obtaining sole custody that you are willing to fight for your children. Look for an experienced divorce attorney who has helped parents fight for their children in the past.

Prepare for Your Day in Court

Finally, after you have gathered your evidence and made any changes necessary to strengthen your case, it is time to stand in front of the judge and fight for your children. Dress appropriately and professionally. When inside the courtroom, do not disparage your spouse, speak out of turn, or speaking rudely to the judge.

The judge will ask you to present your evidence as to why you are the better choice as the sole caregiver for your children. Have your evidence neatly prepared and briefly address the court. Preparing a statement prior to your court date will help you make a brief but impactful plea to the judge on your children's behalf.

Allow your spouse to speak and do not interrupt them, as difficult as this may be. Your judge will see this as a sign of disrespect.

For many parents seeking a divorce, gaining sole custody is the most difficult and important aspect of their fight. Gathering evidence to support your case, hiring an attorney, and acting respectfully in court will help strengthen your case and increase your chances of winning.


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